You’re not that special, dude
I had a pretty vulnerable share in my bestselling book, Stepping Beyond Intention, about a particular area of challenge wherein I applied the Beyond Intention four-step model to create change.
The long story made short, was that a particular relationship that I had been seeking to transition out of lovingly fell away all by itself when, upon catching the limited belief that was holding me at the matching frequency, I broke the agreement with the belief using Beyond Intention.
“Change happens when YOU do”
Alchemic Life Creation — where my work goes once a client has moved through the Beyond Intention paradigm — asserts that not only can we use Beyond Intention to hold an elevated frequency in our state of being, but we can create the blueprint of what that frequency is but connecting with deeper/higher levels of consciousness so that ego and all its trappings can be left out of the picture. It is a model for creating such a deeply aligned flow in our being, that creation happens around us in divinely effortless flow.
You could say that we get the blueprint from pure source as to what we “should create” and then “manifest” that creation purely through who we are.
Anyone who has followed my work for any amount of time will know just how much I loathe the phrase “manifesting” to some extent, only because of the weird and mystical magical mist that people keep around it. We are all manifesting all of the time. The very fact that we are experiencing anything here in this moment is because it has been manifested. Creation moment to moment of our reality is exactly how we experience reality.
It’s not that special dude.
You’re not that special, dude.
My belief is that what we call “manifesting”, is deliberately choosing what that experience is. There is nothing special about this either. We live in a level of density governed by laws, one of which is the law of Vibration. In short, this law stipulates that we are met at our vibration with experiences at the same frequency. As I say, “reality wraps around how we feel”, given that our feelings are the initial level that we connect with the truth of our vibration in the now.
If we want a different experience, we need a different frequency of vibration; being empowered to choose this is where Beyond Intention comes in.
Making the choice consistently to show up in the vibration that is aligned with what we consciously choose is not always an easy job, especially when the addiction to the pay offs associated with the old way of being and doing are deeply rooted.
One thing that I have found in my coaching and teaching, is that it is only ever those who are truly ready to let go of who they are that ever get anywhere, regardless of the inner or outer work that they undertake.
Meditation for 20 hours a day whilst still committed to being the person you were when you sat down to meditate is… well… what it is, but does leave you standing in the way of the change that awaits you as the vibration available for you to shift into with the work being done as you meditate.
As an advanced student of Dr Joe Dispenza, I have witnessed many miracles in the coherence healings that happen at his weeklong retreats. Beyond these retreats, the application of the work of Lynn McTaggart in her books on intention (most notably “The Power of 8”) has seen healings and other life changing transformations happen before my very eyes…
But not for everyone.
I looked at this question of inconsistency of results a little while ago on the question of Vision Boards and Mindmovies in a webinar that I presented. The thing that baked my noodle, was that as these things are all based on the application of universal laws, there should be a level of repeatable predictability in results, but there is not.
As I put forward in Stepping Beyond Intention, we are the common denominator in our experiences, and so the first place to look for the solution should always be inside. My theory is that on some level — generally deeply hidden in the unconscious — there is a commitment to remaining the same frequency of vibration that inhibits the change being called in by the vision board, mind movie or coherence healing.
The subconscious mind though is a slippery thing, operating at as much as ten thousand to ten MILLION times the speed of the conscious mind. Even as the opportunity to create lasting change is presented here with the invitation to make the empowering choice to let go of the old way of being. Time and time again in my own work I have witness this instead being used as an opportunity to beat up on oneself, or even go into the victim role on account of those “to blame” for the patterns in the mind that hold one captive.
This is conversation for another time though.
Today I offer that you take the opportunity to reflect on where you are holding on — no judgement, no trying to change anything here, just sit with it.
Next week I’ll be back with a few words on maybe, just MAYBE why you are holding on to it in the first place.
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